At a Glance
- Rhea Seehorn met fiancé Graham Larson on a blind date arranged by his ex-wife
- The couple has been engaged since 2015 after dating since 2013
- Seehorn considers Larson’s two sons from his previous marriage as her own children
- Why it matters: The unusual love story shows how modern families can blend successfully
Rhea Seehorn’s path to finding love took an unexpected turn when she met her future fiancé through his ex-wife. The actress, who earned a Golden Globe nomination for her Apple TV series Pluribus, has been with Graham Larson since 2013.
The Unusual Setup
Their relationship began when Mary Alice Haney, Larson’s ex-wife, played matchmaker. Seehorn first met Haney at a hair salon where they struck up a conversation.
“I told my hairdresser I’d like 2 start dating again, she said I should meet this other woman in the salon,” Seehorn shared on social media. “I hit it off w her & was just happy making a new girlfriend. But she insisted on setting me up. I’m now engaged 2 him. It was her ex. She didn’t tell me.”
This blind coffee date setup in 2013 led to an immediate connection between Seehorn and Larson. About two years later, they became engaged.
Building a Family
Larson brought two children from his previous marriage to the relationship: Graham Franklin Larson (nicknamed “Gray”) and Henry McLain Larson (who goes by his middle name). Seehorn quickly embraced her role as a maternal figure to the boys.
“My relationship with them and how close I am with them … is completely because of the permission of their parents and the way they co-parent,” she explained on the Really Famous with Kara Mayer Robinson podcast in 2018.
Her social media posts frequently showcase their family life together. During the 2022 Hollywood Critics Association Television Awards, she publicly thanked her “beloved fiancé, Graham Larson” and “my beautiful sons, Gray and McClain.”
In January 2023, Seehorn commemorated their relationship anniversary with an Instagram post: “Thank goodness I said yes to a blind date 10 years ago today, set up by a woman I had only met 45 mins prior in a salon, who turned out to be his ex-wife.”
His Background
Larson’s career journey spans both entertainment and real estate. He began as a production assistant on films including I Am Sam and Traffic, later working as a producer on The Last Samurai.
His career pivot led him to real estate, where he now works with Sotheby’s International Realty. According to his website, real estate represents his “true passion.”
Wedding Plans
Despite being engaged since at least 2015, the couple hasn’t rushed to the altar. Their different wedding preferences have contributed to the delay.
“He had a huge, gorgeous wedding that was so beautiful and lovely that InStyle magazine had to cover it,” Seehorn noted on the podcast, referencing Larson’s previous wedding to Haney.
“He loved it, but has no desire to do that all over again. But I have not been married, so he’s willing to do whatever I want,” she continued. “I don’t want a giant wedding, but I don’t want just Justice of the Peace, either.”
Personal Influence
Larson’s influence extends beyond family into Seehorn’s personal style. In an interview with Filler magazine, she credited him with helping balance her fashion sensibilities.
“I’ve got two basic sides that used to fight, and now coexist in peace. I love menswear,” she said. “My fiancé’s shirts … that I love to steal” became her favorite clothing item.
The couple’s relationship timeline shows steady progression:
Relationship Timeline
| Year | Milestone |
|---|---|
| 2013 | Met on blind date arranged by Larson’s ex-wife |
| 2015 | Became engaged |
| 2018 | Publicly discussed blended family dynamics |
| 2022 | Thanked family during awards speech |
| 2023 | Celebrated 10-year anniversary of first date |
Key Takeaways
- Rhea Seehorn found love through an unconventional setup orchestrated by her fiancé’s ex-wife
- The couple has successfully blended their families, with Seehorn embracing her role as stepmother
- Despite different wedding visions, they remain committed to finding the right celebration approach
- Their nearly decade-long engagement reflects thoughtful consideration rather than hesitation
