At a Glance
- Sami Sheen says she’s endured aggressive, non-consensual sexual behavior “so many times” it left her terrified of men
- The 21-year-old influencer told 267,900 TikTok followers she’s been “literally traumatized” even by men she was dating
- She demands partners ask explicit consent questions like “Can I do this to you?” before any intimate act
- Why it matters: Sami’s viral video spotlights how blurred consent lines can cause lasting emotional damage
Sami Sheen, daughter of Denise Richards and Charlie Sheen, has posted a raw TikTok video describing repeated experiences with non-consensual sexual aggression that left her distrusting men and afraid of intimacy.
Sami’s TikTok Plea
On January 5, the 21-year-old content creator asked her audience why some men turn violent during sex without ever discussing limits. She said the pattern has made her consider swearing off men entirely.
> “It’s really scary, and it’s not fun, and it makes me never wanna be intimate with another man ever again,” she said.
Sami, who also models on OnlyFans, told viewers the aggression often came from men she was seeing at the time. She described how an otherwise “sweetest guy” could become someone who left her fearful.
Personal Trauma Revealed
Sami explained that multiple partners crossed boundaries without asking permission.
> “It’s really traumatic, and it’s happened to me so many times,” she said. “I’m terrified, and I’m not having fun.”
She recalled having to stop encounters to say, “You can’t do that. That’s not OK, and I don’t like that you need to ask me if that’s OK.”
After several “really, really bad experiences,” Sami said she now feels “literally traumatized” and “scared” of men.
Questioning Violence
Sami challenged the appeal of rough behavior, asking:
- “How could someone want to hurt a woman like that?”
- “Is it not sexy to them to be gentle with a woman?”
- “Why are we so violent?”
- “What is hot about that?”
She acknowledged that preferences differ, but insisted all partners must talk about comfort and limits before sex.
Consent Is Sexy
In her caption, Sami wrote, “Consent is sexy, let’s start asking for it!!!” She urged partners to ask questions such as:
- “Can I do this to you?”
- “Is that okay?”
- “Are you comfortable with this?”
- “Does this hurt?”
Sami closed the video admitting, “I don’t want to do anything with another man for a really long time. I’m genuinely scared. I don’t trust any of them.”
Support Resource
The video directed anyone affected by sexual assault to the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE or rainn.org.
According to News Of Losangeles, Sami’s post underscores a wider conversation about consent and communication in intimate relationships.
