> At a Glance
> – A 24-year-old Reddit user says a week meant for four college friends morphed into a five-day drive with strangers
> – The host added his brother and several international travelers, shrinking car space and changing the vibe
> – A quick group call reversed the decision; the city stay is back on
> – Why it matters: Last-minute itinerary shifts can strain friendships-speaking up early can prevent resentment
A college reunion nearly derailed when the host swapped a relaxed city week for a crowded road trip. The 24-year-old guest detailed the saga on Reddit’s “Am I the A——” forum, explaining how the change left him riding with people he barely knew.
The Original Plan vs. The New Plan
The visitor and two friends expected seven days catching up in their host’s city. Instead, the 25-year-old host announced a five-day out-of-town drive that included his brother and several international companions.
- Car would hold eight people total
- Foreign guests planned to speak their native language among themselves
- Guest of honor had already blocked two full weeks off work
> “What was supposed to be a week with my college friends has turned into mostly a road trip in a shared car with like five other people I don’t know well,” the 24-year-old wrote.
Speaking Up Paid Off
After forum users urged him to voice concerns, the traveler joined a group video chat. The friends agreed the revised schedule felt rushed and cramped. Together they scrapped the road trip and reverted to the original city-based stay.
| Timeline | Plan Status |
|---|---|
| Initial idea | City week with 4 friends |
| Host’s switch | 5-day road trip with 8 people |
| After discussion | City week restored |
Key Takeaways
- Clear, early communication preserved the friendship
- Group travel works best when everyone helps shape the agenda
- A single honest conversation can undo a bad plan
The four college buddies are now set to explore the city as first intended, proving a quick talk can keep a reunion on track.
