At a Glance
- Hilary Duff is mom to four kids: Luca, 13, and daughters Banks, 7, Mae, 4, and Townes, 1
- She shares Luca with ex Mike Comrie and her three daughters with husband Matthew Koma
- Duff calls the daily household chaos “pure moments of magic”
- Why it matters: Shows how modern blended families thrive and find joy in the mayhem
Hilary Duff juggles four kids, two last names, and one buzzing house, yet insists the chaos feels “good.”
The Blended Crew
Duff’s oldest, Luca Cruz Comrie, arrived March 20, 2012, when the actress was 24. She now co-parents him amicably with ex-husband Mike Comrie while Koma acts as a trusted bonus dad. At the couple’s 2019 wedding, Luca read a poem that began, “Our family is a galaxy shooting off of the cosmos.”
- Banks Violet Bair – born Oct. 25, 2018, loves Harry Styles and Duff’s own single “Sparks.”
- Mae James Bair – born March 24, 2021, celebrated her third birthday with puddle-jumping and “smoodies.”
- Townes Meadow Bair – born May 3, 2024, arrived via home water birth and earned the nickname for her “perfected cheeks.”
Life in the Thick of It
Duff told News Of Los Angeles she craves the energy of a packed house: “You never know what the day is going to bring or what your kid’s going to say.”

Koma backs her up with humor; after Ashley Tisdale’s essay on leaving a “toxic” mom group, he posted a spoof magazine cover titled “When You’re the Most Self-Obsessed Tone-Deaf Person on Earth, Other Moms Tend to Shift Focus to Their Actual Toddlers.”
| Child | Birth Date | Fun Fact |
|---|---|---|
| Luca | March 2012 | Wrote galaxy poem for wedding |
| Banks | October 2018 | Sequined Harry Styles pillow owner |
| Mae | March 2021 | Sports mom-cut bangs |
| Townes | May 2024 | Home water-birth baby |
Key Takeaways
- Duff and Comrie’s respectful co-parenting sets the tone for Luca’s secure blended-family view.
- Banks, Mae, and Townes keep the music loud-whether it’s Styles concerts or Duff’s own tracks on repeat.
- The actress embraces mayhem, claiming motherhood turned her into a “freaking super woman.”
Four kids, three daughters, one teenage son, and zero quiet nights-Duff wouldn’t have it any other way.

