> At a Glance
> – A U.K. woman accidentally let a neighbor’s black cat into her date’s home
> – The man’s indoor cat, Sooty, is a gray Persian, not black
> – The neighbor spotted the intruder and was unimpressed
> – Why it matters: A simple mix-up shows how fast a first date can spiral into chaos
A first-drink mishap turned into a feline fiasco when a woman tried to do a good deed and ended up enraging a neighbor.
The Spill That Started It All
After weeks of chatting online, the woman met Tom at a nearby bar. A drunk patron drenched his shirt, so Tom suggested a quick wardrobe change at his house before dinner.

He slipped into another room while she waited with a glass of wine. A black cat appeared on the windowsill; assuming it was Tom’s much-mentioned pet, she opened the window and let it in.
Wrong Cat, Real Consequences
They left for the restaurant, laughs flowing, until Tom rang later, stunned:
- Sooty is an indoor-only gray Persian with black nose and ear tips
- The cat she admitted was a neighbor’s black moggie
- The neighbor saw the trespasser through the window and was not amused
Tom spent the evening cleaning up, calming both cats, and explaining he wasn’t cat-napping anyone.
Online Chorus: Laugh It Off
Mumsnet users urged her to text Tom and own the blunder:
- “Send Tom a text laughing at what a twat you were”
- “Who says you have blown it?”
- “This is Tom’s own fault for calling a gray cat Sooty“
She joked she may never hear from him again, but the forum’s verdict was clear: the story’s too funny not to share.
Key Takeaways
- Always double-check a pet’s identity before playing doorman
- A simple act of kindness can snowball into neighbor drama
- Owning an embarrassing moment can turn cringe into charm

